We have all been asked the question “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?” or “What are your 5 year plans?” or “What are your goals in life?”. For many of us, especially parents of neurodivergent kids, freelancers in shifting industries, or those managing chronic health problems, that question feels like a joke. When your life is non-linear, a five-year plan isn’t a roadmap; it’s a guilt trip.

If your daily North Star is navigating the day with I’m-in-no-mood-to-do-anything mood, your goals have to adjust accordingly to micro-goals.

Here is what I have learnt from life and moved from goals to micro-goals:

Shift from Destinations to Directions

In a non-linear life, career goals shouldn’t be about a specific destination.

  Linear Goal: I will be a General Manager by 2030. (Rigid goal, prone to failure if life intervenes)

 Non-Linear Goal: I will prioritize skill building. (Flexible, moves with you whether you’re working 40 hours or 4).

The Micro-Goal Framework

When the big picture is blurry, zoom in. A micro-goal is something you can achieve in the free time of your day.

The if-then plans

Non-linear lives require elasticity in every goal. Build your goals with a “Plan B” already in place. This prevents the all-or-nothing spiral when things go sideways.

For example, I planned to complete this A2Z challenge properly this year with one post every day but clearly that isn’t happening. So, I’m writing whenever I get the chance. I am more focused on completing the challenge.

Reclaim Your Wins

You may not be able to complete all the tasks on your to-do list, but pat yourself on any and everything you accomplish in the day. Every win is commendable whether big or small.

Success isn’t about following a straight line; it’s about staying in the game, one micro-goal at a time.

This post is a part of Blogchatter A2Z Challenge 2026.