little miss and her mom
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I spent 12 years in banking before I became the primary manager of a household with one kid, a dog, and a therapy schedule that rivals a small clinic’s. With a school quite far from home and multiple therapies all of which need to be logged perfectly so as not to overstimulate or overtire Little…
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In the banking world, we talk about “burn rate” or “cash burn”, the speed at which a company spends its venture capital or cash reserves before generating a profit or cash flow. In the world of special needs parenting, we have our own burn rate. Advocacy Fatigue isn’t just being “tired”. It’s the cumulative exhaustion…
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It is that time of the year when we, the bloggers start working on Blogchatter A2Z Challenge. Every year in April, you’ll find me working on my tablet or phone or laptop, depending on how much time I have or where I am; researching, writing and posting on topics starting from alphabets A to Z…
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No one prepares you for the moment when you realize your child’s life will not follow the path you imagined. When my daughter was diagnosed with a genetic disorder that could cause developmental delays, I felt my definition of parenthood shift overnight. What I didn’t know then was that this unexpected journey would teach me…
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When I was about 9 or 10 years old, I had watched a movie Chachi 420. It had a song, “Dauda dauda bhaaga bhaaga sa” (it roughly translates to someone who is running around and rushing). Last week I felt the same happening to me. Owing to the constant bouts of cold, Little Miss had…
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Saturday was Annual Sports Day at Little Miss’s school. Children from all the branches of her school were participating and I too, feeling very brave and slightly anxious, registered her name. We have spent so much time keeping her way from crowded places and gatherings to protect her from the sensory issues that every event…
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The advent of cold weather always brings with itself the usual gifts of runny nose, cold, cough and sometimes fever too. However hard we try to avoid these pre-packaged gifts, taking help of homoeopathy, allopathy, ayurveda, dadi-nani ke nuskhe, they sneak into the house and then make themselves at home. In our home, cold usually…
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This year, Diwali and Little Miss’s birthday fell on the same day. I would have preferred both being on different days but well, the calendar is not made by me. And anyway, just like past few years there was a big confusion on when is Diwali. This confusion led to husband’s office being open on…
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Navratri went by two weeks ago and Diwali is less than a week away. The season of festivals is here and I find this time very joyous. Navratri is celebrated with worship of Durga in her nine forms, Navadurga, and also by playing garba. Navratri is a kaleidoscope of colours, with a different colour hue…
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When you’re parenting a child with special needs, you live in a world of extremes. You’re constantly toggling between intense advocacy and quiet moments of joy, between deep worry and deep, unexpected humor. We often feel this pressure to be “strong” or “grateful,” as if acknowledging the hard parts invalidates the good parts. The truth…